Energy management for ADHD moms is about recognizing how your energy levels fluctuate throughout the day and aligning your tasks with those natural highs and lows. Instead of pushing through exhaustion, it’s about working smarter, not harder.

Here’s how I use energy management to stay productive without burning out.
For years, I fought against my energy levels. I’d try to power through tasks even when I was exhausted, only to crash halfway through the day. It felt like I was always behind and could never catch up.
Then, I learned about energy management. By paying attention to my natural rhythms and planning my day around them, I started getting more done—without the stress and burnout. Here’s how you can do it too.
1. Identify Your Energy Peaks and Valleys
The first step is to figure out when you feel most energized and when you need to rest. For me, mornings are my high-energy time, while afternoons are better for lighter tasks.
Quick Tip: Track your energy levels for a few days to spot patterns.
2. Tackle High-Energy Tasks First
Once you know your peaks, use that time for your most challenging or important tasks. I use my mornings to tackle big projects, make important decisions, or clean high-traffic areas in my home.
Why It Works: You’re more likely to stay focused and productive when your energy is at its highest.
3. Save Low-Energy Tasks for the Afternoon
During my low-energy periods, I focus on easier tasks like folding laundry, answering emails, or prepping for dinner. These are tasks that don’t require a lot of brainpower but still need to get done.
ADHD Hack: Pair low-energy tasks with something enjoyable, like listening to a podcast or watching a show.
4. Build in Rest Breaks
ADHD brains need frequent breaks to recharge. I schedule 10-15 minute breaks between tasks to rest and reset. Sometimes I’ll stretch, grab a snack, or scroll through social media (guilt-free!).
Pro Tip: Set a timer for your break to avoid losing track of time.
5. Use “Energy Anchors” to Stay Balanced
Energy anchors are small activities that help you recharge. For me, it’s a quick walk outside, a cup of tea, or a 5-minute meditation. These anchors keep me grounded and prevent burnout.
Example: After a busy morning, I’ll take a 10-minute walk to clear my head before jumping into afternoon tasks.
6. Say No to Energy Drains
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is to say no to tasks or commitments that drain my energy without adding value. Whether it’s overcommitting to events or taking on extra responsibilities, I’ve learned to prioritize what matters most.
Encouragement: It’s okay to say no. Protecting your energy is an act of self-care.
7. Adjust and Reassess as Needed
Energy management isn’t a one-size-fits-all solution. I tweak my routine regularly to account for changes in my schedule or life circumstances. Some days are busier than others, and that’s okay.
Why It Works: Flexibility helps you stay aligned with your needs without adding extra pressure.
Energy management is a game-changer for ADHD moms. By working with your natural rhythms, building in rest, and protecting your energy, you can get through your day with less stress and more success.
Remember, it’s not about doing everything—it’s about doing what matters most. You’ve got this, mama!
Want to learn more about managing your energy? Download my “ADHD Mom’s Energy Tracker” to start aligning your tasks with your natural rhythms. Share your biggest energy drain in the comments—I’d love to help you tackle it!